Time does not heal
BUT what we do with that time can transform.

Henri Nouwen, 

Give sorrow words;

the grief that does not speak

whispers the o’er-fraught heart,

and bids it break.

Shakespeare, Macbeth

A Cut Finger

A cut finger
is numb before it bleeds,
it bleeds before it hurts,
it hurts until it begins to heal,
it forms a scab and itches
until finally, the scab is gone
and a small scare is left
where once there was a wound.
Grief is the deepest wound
you ever had.
Like a cut finger,
it goes through stages,
and leaves a scar.

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